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Save My Marriage: Six Signs Your Marriage May Be In Trouble
Posted by Adam Bennett in Family on December 16th, 2011
Have you recently realized that your marriage may be on the brink of divorce? This can be a very shocking and eye opening experience. Before you go about taking steps to save your marriage, you must first recognize what the problem is in your marriage. Here are the six signs that you and your spouse need to work on your marriage.
A breakdown in communication is the first and probably most important sign that your marriage is in trouble. Many struggling couples only discussing daily events, and never talking about anything meaningful. Two major communication issues include constant arguing and lack of communication altogether. Some arguments may be healthy for a relationship, but it is no longer healthy when it becomes the primary form of communication.
Loss of friendship is a huge sign of a problem. You and your spouse may no longer spend any time working on your friendship. The media often talks about relationships in terms of lust, but a foundation of friendship is often much more important.
Loss of trust is a huge factor that your marriage may be in trouble. Your marriage must be founded on a basis of trust. If trust isn’t a constant throughout your marriage, you can never move forward confidently. Infidelity leads to trust issues that may take years to heal.
When your sex life becomes non-existant, one or both partners may feel unloved and completely unwanted. Lack of intimacy may also breed temptation to cheat on your spouse. If your marriage leaves you feeling unattractive, you must solve this problem.
Have you ever felt trapped in your marriage? Any relationship should make you feel validated, not like you can’t move forward and improve your life. Many people in failing marriages feel that they would be better off on their own.
You and your spouse should interact with others as a couple. While it is healthy to have your own social circles, you should not spend all of your time apart from each other. Making time to go out with your partner to interact with other couples is very important.
If any of these signs sound familiar to you, it may be time to seek out a marriage counselor to act as a third party observer. Another great option is to seek out a quality online marriage course. If you’re thinking about saving your marriage, you must be able to pinpoint what your problem is so you can move forward positively.
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